The Misinterpretation of Dreams

It’s really not my fault that I’ve been such a bad blogger, the website seems to have been dysfunctional and I was even told by one of my readers that my blog couldn’t be found!!! Well I hope things are back on track now. During the dysfunction I wrote a long and, at the time I thought, profound piece analyzing the movie whose name is the title of this blog entry. If what I wrote was so profound, I’m wondering why I can’t remember what it was!!!

Anyway, I’m not going to waste anymore time trying to recall my profound reflections and say this: I must admit that I really did enjoy the movie, I like that it didn’t really follow the dried out Hollywood formula for romantic comedies. Also, I have to mention that Scarlett Johannson was absolutely steaming hot! I love that she’s curvaceous and so sexy! There are two major things I’ve been wondering about since watching the movie-

1. Is it true that in this day and age a woman should wait for the guy to make all the first moves? Should we really sit back and say, “Well, if he’s really into me he will do WHATEVER it takes to be with me, so I’m not going to make it easy for him.”? Now I get the whole idea of not throwing yourself at a man and not acting out of desperation, but what’s the matter with a little encouragement to let the guy know that his efforts would be welcome?
2. What is the right thing to do if you feel the way the married guy felt for Scarlett in the movie? Are those feelings just lust? Well, I do think that when you’re married, it’s a whole other ball game, but let’s say you’re in a long term relationship and you meet this other person who just makes you feel things you feel guilty about feeling, but just can’t help feeling? Is that just lust or could it be that you’re with the wrong person?